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Schema Modes

What Is A Schema Mode?

We know that schemas are core negative beliefs which shape the way we think about ourselves as a person, and that they are caused by unmet needs associated with safety, love, emotional connection and acceptance.

But what is a schema mode? Put simply, schema modes are the moment-to-moment emotional states and coping responses that everybody experiences. A lot of the time, these schema modes are triggered inside us by life situations that we are personally oversensitive to. This is when we feel a strong emotional reaction, and our own built-in coping methods take over.

If you think of our natural coping responses and emotional states as a series of light switches, each of us has some of them switched on and some switched off at any given moment in time. Whichever one is predominantly dictating our current mood and behaviour is our current “schema mode”.

What schema modes are there?


There are four basic categories of schema modes, which help to label and identify the way someone thinks, feels and acts when their schemas are activated:


  • Child modes – thoughts, feelings and behaviours are like a child when a core need(s) is not adequately met. Subcategories are vulnerable, angry, impulsive and undisciplined.


  • Critic or parent modes – the internalised critical voice of an attachment figure (such as parents, teachers and peers) during childhood and adolescence. Subcategories are punitive critic and demanding critic.


  • Maladaptive coping modes – overused defence mechanisms or survival-based coping styles; typically fight (overcompensating), flight (avoidance) or freeze (surrender).


  • Healthy modes – thoughts, feelings and behaviours are healthy as core needs are being met in an adaptive manner.


Schema mode therapy


The goal in schema therapy is to decrease maladaptive coping modes while strengthening the healthy coping modes. We aim to equip you with the emotional tools and techniques to reinforce your “healthy” schema mode, and nurture or neutralise your other schema modes.


At Your Psychologist in Elsternwick, evidence-based psychologist and internationally accredited coach Franco Greco will help you break out of self-defeating patterns and implement sustainable positive changes.


Franco has worked closely alongside patients with varying obstacles to their mental health and well-being; from
emotional deprivation and social isolation to mistrust issues and feelings of failure or abandonment.


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