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Failure Schema

We Specialise in Failure Schema Therapy in Elsternwick

Failure schema is a deeply troubling headspace, where you feel that you are fundamentally inadequate or incompetent.

You might consider yourself to be stupid, ignorant or pathetic, and this leads you to either avoid trying anything at all because you assume you will fail, or you could go to the other extreme and push yourself to breaking point.

In regards to relationships, people with failure schema often give up on them altogether and decide to spend their lives alone, whereas in a career sense it can lead to underachievement – remaining in a job that is far below your potential.

This schema tends to cause procrastination, and a lack of motivation to begin or complete a task because you fear that you are going to fail. On the other hand, it can also create workaholics, as people with failure schema often push themselves harder and harder in order to overcompensate for their perceived lack of talent.

Either way, failure schema usually results in a lifestyle that is well below our potential, and this can lead to feelings of hopelessness and depression.

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Your Psychologist Elsternwick has helped countless people overcome failure schema through therapy

When left untreated, failure schema (like many schemas) often leads to addictive behaviour, as mind-numbing substances help us suppress these feelings of inadequacy, while other substances can temporarily boost our confidence and self-esteem.

 

If you are living with a voice in your head that relentlessly tells you that you’re not good enough, Your Psychologist is here to help. Our Elsternwick clinic frequently helps people with failure schema through in-depth therapy that resolves the issue at its core.

 

​There are numerous childhood situations that can lead to failure schema, such as having parents or people in our lives who ridiculed, mocked, devalued or criticised our efforts. This constant bullying (whether intentional or not) causes us to internalise these messages deep in our subconscious, where they run like a background track to our lives. 



Do you have failure schema?

Some clear symptoms of failure schema include:

  • Feeling inadequate or inferior when comparing yourself to others
  • Feeling stupid or incapable of achieving what others can achieve
  • Lack of self-confidence and a tendency to procrastinate when something needs doing
  • Feeling ashamed of where you are in your life right now
  • A sense of feeling like an imposter at your place of work; like you don’t deserve to be there

 

Many symptoms of failure schema overlap with other unhealthy headspaces, such as emotional deprivation schema, subjugation schema, unrelenting standards schema and vulnerability schema.



Contact us to schedule an appointment

At Your Psychologist, we will help you overcome this belief that you are a failure, and change your mind-set in regards to career, relationships, finances and your life in general. To schedule an appointment, contact us today.

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0419 139 805
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Wednesday: 9am - 9pm
Thursday: 8am - 6pm
Friday: 8am - 6pm

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